We need your help!
Queer Meets Queer is partially funded by a grant from the Regional Arts & Culture Council (RACC). We are an independent bunch of queer artists with day jobs. In order to bring queer relationship stories to a wide audience, we need your support.
We’re opening the closet door on queer relationships
In 2020 queers are out of the closet, but in many cases our relationships are still in the closet. Many queer people don’t feel comfortable talking about their relationships openly because of stigma and a lack of understanding about alternative relationship models. Queer relationships are complex, shifting and don't follow familiar narratives. People in the queer community often don’t have role models for their relationships in reality or in the media. As a result, queers often struggle with feelings that their relationships somehow aren’t legitimate or valid, which is due in part to a lack of representation, stigma, and a lack of opportunities to have open, honest discussions about queer relationships.
Queer Meets Queer will be an unprecedented collection of ~30 first person narratives about types of relationships that are rarely represented in popular media. We will shine light on, and thereby validate, relationships that are still “in the closet” in 2020.
Our stories matter
It is not an exaggeration to say that we think this podcast will save lives. Suicide is a leading cause of death for LGBTQ+ youth and young adults. LGBTQ youth and adults alike need validation, representation, and physical, tangible proof that they are not alone, that they are not sick. They need role models. They need permission to be themselves. This podcast is for them. This podcast is for our younger selves. It is for us, now, in this moment, as people who desperately needs to hear these stories and want desperately for these stories to be told.
Where it’s all going
We believe strongly that creative work is real work, and it’s work worth doing. We are committed to paying everyone involved in this project for their time, effort, creativity, and passion. That’s why the vast majority of our budget is going directly to queer artists and storytellers. every person who tells a story on our podcast will receive a $25 honorarium for their time and their vulnerability.
The world needs queer relationship stories
Potential Episode List
Pilot: What do we mean by queer relationships? Co-hosts tell their own relationship stories.
Isolation pod: Stories of isolation and sticking together in the face of COVID-19.
Friends with benefits?: Stories about adventures in queer friendship, best friends, fluid friendships, and platonic love.
Relationships and HIV: Stories about how living with HIV shapes our relationships.
Metamorphosis: stories about relationships and people that undergo radical transformations
Tranships: Trans men and women tell stories about the most important relationships in their lives.
Three or more: Stories of polyamory, non-monogamy, and the monogomish.
First timers: Stories about finding ourselves in puppy love, infatuation, and first times.
Chosen family: stories of families we found
Ace Case: Stories of Asexual partnership, friendship, and love.
Coming out: How coming out changed our relationships
Love is work: Sex workers tell stories on how they build their relationships
Bonus content and Extras
How do you sleep at night?: One big bed? Seperate rooms? Separate homes? An overview of how LGBTQ people live and sleep together.
Queer 4 Queer: Tinder, Grinder, Bumble, Scruff; how dating apps shape our relationships.
Queer meets Queer After Dark: A serise of short, candid stories about sex and relationships.
How did you meet?: An overview of all the ways the post important relationships in our lives got their start.